What women wish you knew about dating
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I don’t know why a Christian writer writing to Christians would even list bars and nightclubs: the author does discuss the potential problems of such a setting, and with all the caveats mentioned, any thinking young person would deduce that bars are not really options.
To give the author the benefit of the doubt, perhaps that is exactly what he was trying to do: help the reader see the problems without outright saying, “DON’T go to these places,” knowing that that in itself would cause some to seek them out; or perhaps he was thinking of a wider audience who might already have some experience in such places, and he was trying to help them see they were the least attractive options.
If you have a young person old enough to consider dating, you’ve probably already had discussions about your standards on this issue — if not, you should.
But with this consideration and the first one, you’d really need to take into account how your young person might respond.