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It’s a pretty good way to pass the time from Brooklyn to midtown. I spent my childhood surrounded by black and brown kids, but when I got to high school, suddenly everyone around me was white.

I’ve gone on a few dates with white guys in the last few months, and the same thing always happens.

In the past, I’d have sought that comfort out in a white man, but that night I knew it wouldn’t be enough.

It’s not that I don’t think white people are anxious; two months into Trump’s presidency, most of the white people in my life are activated.

“Is it racist to have a preference when it comes to the race of the people you date? He didn’t have any real reasons for his preferences and I had more than a strong suspicion that they were informed by stereotypes about all of the groups he mentioned rather than by any real personal experience with them. Being a young person of colour in one of the most diverse cities in the world where dating culture feels increasingly more Americanised, I hear heated debates about racial preferences all the time.

Both of us are products of mixed relationships and move in ethnically diverse circles, but I knew where the conversation was going. “On what that preference is, and why.” He’s mixed white and Caribbean, and said to me that he was interested in “light-skinned” girls, Latinas and white girls. When I asked him what made him feel that way he shrugged and said “I just do.” His response sounded pretty problematic to me.

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